Got a marriage problem which might change my life forever?

I'm sorry but places like Korea and this whole parents disowning you thing is terrible. It's your parents trying to control you until you are married. this seems to mean that they will want the best person for you, and they have to be financially well off or something like that. that means that many women are forced to marry someone their parents like instead of one that they like. sometimes they are able to be with the person they like if their parents like them also, but i doubt this is often. christianity teaches love to be eternal no matter what wrongs you do. following your heart instead of theirs is wrong. how can you be happy that way? how can a parent disown their own child? i think you should tell your parents about him after you two meet face to face.